Hurricane Katrina and a blushing bride

Would you believe that it has been seven years since Hurricane Katrina? I googled the date five times to make sure I wasn’t confused! Wow time does fly…

My sister Katy and her husband Billy live in New Orleans with their two boys, Jack and William. They lost everything they owned in Hurricane Katrina after ten feet of water flooded their first floor apartment. It was a difficult time for them, relocating their family and rebuilding their possessions, but as Katy would always say “They are just material possessions and can always be replaced.” I always admired her for being so wise and strong during that whole situation…

One thing that Katy and Billy lost that could never be replaced was their wedding album. I know I could bounce back from losing furniture and clothes and appliances—but to have the record of your favorite memories, photos, letters, albums–all washed away? Help me rhonda it just kills me inside. And keep in mind they were married way before we had everything saved online!

What I’m about to tell you is a truly cool story, and a great way of showing how to creatively take your talent and give back to someone else!

The Digital Wedding Forum had a photography conference in New Orleans and the conference coordinator, Deborah Molique, had an idea to “pay it forward” by giving three couples the chance to redo their wedding albums after losing them in Hurricane Katrina. What an amazing idea! There were dozens of photographers who signed on to  the project and my sister, Katy, was one of the three brides chosen to participate. Ahh I still get excited when I say it…or type it….or whatever…

Let’s not forget that if you lose your wedding album in a hurricane, you probably lost your wedding dress and shoes and the whole nine yards! The Digital Wedding Forum arranged for all three chosen brides to go borrow a new wedding dress from a local retailer, have their hair and make-up done and have a gazillion photographers follow them around the French Quarter in New Orleans taking photographs of their “staged” wedding day.

I’m crying.

It’s just so nice! And sweet. And amazing!

My beautiful sister in all of her glory.

Amazing to think that seven years after losing her wedding photos she got the chance to recreate one of the best days of her life….

I’m still crying.

And I can’t think of a better place to have wedding portraits taken than in the historic French Quarter!

This picture really captures it all….

Cute. Cute. Cute.

I think this is my favorite photo. Billy is just livin’ it up. You’d think he was really on the way to his reception…

I am now sobbing.

But honestly, we all know how important the wedding is to the bride, and I couldn’t be happier that my big sis got to recreate her special day. Could you imagine how funny it felt to “pretend” like it was your wedding day after being married for twelve years? HA! I love it.

I hope this inspires you to take your talents and give to someone in need!

Ok I’m gonna stop crying now. Goodnight!

 

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steve azar and ride records

I remember the day so clearly. It had rained overnight and the morning brought a load of muddy obstacles to overcome before I got to the office. White pants were out of the question so I wore black jeans and biker boots,  just in case a dog paw found my leg or there were standing pools of water at the stupid cattle gate that ruins my life on a daily basis. I got to work on time, thank God, and started on my long-list-of-things-to-do-before-you-leave-for-Nashville. I had just told my bosses at Delta Magazine, Scott and Melissa, that I had a deep passion for singing and songwriting and that I needed to take some time off to move to Nashville and explore the opportunity of making my dreams a reality.

So there I was, on my second-to-last day of work, scrambling to get things in order for my replacement and tying up thousands of loose ends, when my office phone was buzzed.

On the other end of the phone was Bill Twyman, President of Ride Records, asking me about a photo he saw online that I had taken in Clarksdale. After a few minutes of chatting, I realized that Ride Records was Mississippi Delta native Steve Azar’s record label! Steve Azar has the greatest story. He was raised in the Delta, loved songwriting and grew up listening to Delta bluesman play music behind his family’s liquor store. He moved out to Nashville after college and landed a recording deal with Mercury Records. He hit it huge with a song he wrote called “I don’t have to be me until Monday” on the album “Waiting on Joe.” Please download the entire album. “Damn the Money” is also on that album and will be your new favorite song, hands down!

So there I was at work, talking to Bill Twyman…

I could not believe that he found the “Welcome to the Delta” photo above on Facebook and was trying to track it down so he could use it for Steve Azar’s new album (Delta Soul, Volume 1). I went on and on about how much I loved Steve and Bill said “Hang on one second.”  He clicked over, called Steve on his cell phone, and then clicked back over to me. I sat there and talked to Steve Azar, told him I was moving to Nashville to pursue a career in singing and songwriting and he said “Hey, good luck! When you get back to the Delta, give me a call and let’s start writing some songs together.”

My heart kinda stopped. No..it most definitely stopped. Write music with Steve Azar? He had written hits. Like, real hits. He had those shiny records hanging all over the walls in his office from BMI! He had written songs for Reba McEntire and for the love of pete, Morgan Freeman was in one of his music videos!! But calmly I said, “Sure. That sounds great! I’ll be in touch when I get back! Nice to meet you.”

I hung up the phone. I rannnnn down the hallway and told everyone in my office what happened. They told me to shut up and get back to work.

So I did.

Fast forward……………………………………

It was about three weeks after I moved to Nashville, and I found myself coming to a halt. I had met with all of my available contacts and while the feedback was all positive, no real doors had been opened for me. I was hearing a lot of :

“You are great, but you aren’t ready.”

“Keep writing. Develop your craft.”

“You need time to develop, but you’ve got “it”.

I was frustrated. I scanned my phone and emails looking for a possible contact I may have overlooked, when all of a sudden I remembered Bill Twyman and Steve Azar. I was in the driver’s seat of my car, just sitting in the parking lot outside of my apartment complex, when I picked up the phone and dialed Bill Twyman. I asked him if he would set me up with another interview to play my music for someone in Nashville and he happily called his friend at Sanctuary Management on Music Row.

Two days later, I was sitting in the driver’s seat of my car outside of Sanctuary Management, putting on lip-gloss and nervously flipping my hair back and forth ten minutes before I walked into my interview. Twenty minutes after that, I had already walked into the wrong building, taken the wrong elevator and dropped my cell phone in the waiting area. Splat. Battery pops out of my Blackberry and slides across the floor. Receptionist gives me the “you’re an idiot” look…

I walked into Tom Storms office and played him my demo. He listened to the first two songs and then stopped the CD player.

Long story short (haha..none of my stories are EVER short..) I got an email from Bill Twyman telling me that Tom Storms was “wowed with my talent.” That is what gave me “street credit” with the Steve Azar crew and the rest is pretty much history. I came back to the Delta after a wonderful journey to Nashville, and it’s crazy to think that what I was looking for the whole time was thirty miles up the road in Greenville!

What was I looking for?

Well, I was looking for someone that believed in me, believed in my music and was willing to give me a chance. That is exactly what Ride Records is doing for me. They are giving me a chance to make the music I want to make while I develop a fan-base, and they are using their decades of experience and connections to pave the way for me.

I’m siiiiiiiked.

We just got back from recording in Nashville (more to come on that!) and ummm, while I don’t usually like name-dropping, I am going to have to take a moment to name-drop. I’m sorry, but Emmy Lou Harris’ keyboard player and Taylor Swift’s drummer were playing on my record. Daddy say whaaat?? Okay no more name-dropping, I promise.

We have amazing things on the horizon for 2012 and I plan to keep ya posted along the way. Sorry I’ve been missing in action, but I’ve got a good excuse!

 

 

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random folder photos

Cleaning my desktop today! Here are some photos that never made it to the blog…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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my first buck

I’ve sat down at my computer two times this week thinking about what I should write about…

It’s been over a month since the last time I posted, and while I usually ramble on about random things happening in FarmVille (riveting stuff, I know), I’ve been all over the place and couldn’t seem to find a jumping off point to fill you in…

I thought about telling you about my last trip home to Texas and how wonderful it was to see my precious nephews.

Seriously, these kids are my life.

I thought about going into a story about the beautiful mornings I’ve been spending on my porch, wrapped up in a fleece blanket, coffee in hand, watching these white birds walk back and forth over the land bridge.

I even thought about writing about my pup Foxy and her newly acquired habit of pooping downstairs on the concrete slab instead of pooping in the yard like a normal dog…

She’s such a weirdo.

But I’ll spare you the dog-poop story and instead, tell you about this past Sunday and how amazinggggg it was.

Amazing.

Did I say amazing??

It was glorious outside.

Glorious, I tell you!

And somewhere in between “hey do you wanna go hunting?” and ”sure, why the heck not!”….

I shot my first buck.

And it was the best day ever.

And ever and ever and ever and ever.

AMEN.

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I HAVE AN OBSESSION WITH ANIMAL PAINTINGS

I love art.

I didn’t develop a love for art until I moved to Mississippi, which is pretty dang sad considering I lived in and around Austin, Texas for so many years. To think about all of the amazing art and artists I overlooked because I was too busy double-fisting breakfast tacos and drowning myself in queso—-it makes me sick!

If life would have taken a different turn and I ended up in the city, my taste in art would probably be a LOT different. But because I live in FarmVille–down the dirt road, over the levee, across the cattle gap and behind the big stupid dumb gate that is ruining my life–I have grown to love paintings of animals. Cows, deer, ducks, turkeys, hogs and all the other wildlife you see living in the woods on the Mighty Mississippi. If anyone knows of someone who paints coyotes, I have recently developed another slight obsession with packs of wild coyotes. They come into my yard at night and do that little high-pitched barking noise and I feel like I’m camping but I get to sleep in my own bed. Best of both worlds. A modern coyote painting would just rock.

I was on Pinterest this morning and found this artist, Robert Joyner, who is a painter from Richmond, Virginia. I love his cow paintings. I see cows more than I see my friends. Sometimes I think the cows are my friends. What???

I love all of his paintings, but the one above is what I have my heart set on.

Go check him out… http://www.robertjoynerartist.com/portfolio/

Look at his horse paintings too!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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